Each year Mother's Day comes along and the kids want to know what I want for Mother's Day. Every year I look them in the eye and tell them that I want nothing except hugs and kisses because "Being your mom is the best gift I could ever get". Even with the craziness that IS our house most the time: the noise, the messes, the laundry, the cooking, the bickering and teasing... all of it - I take it and I'm thankful. I'm not saying that a little less chaos at times isn't something I crave but then I remember that time is ticking away and before I know it the only chaos in our house will come from visits from our grown children and our grandchildren. I think of that and I remember to savour these times with my kids.
So, I did get some lovely things (including a beautiful card from my poetic and artistic daughter Chloe that brought a tear to my eye) - I wanted nothing more than to spend the day with my family. We did a road trip to get our favourite curd at Mapledale Cheese Factory (along with some tasty cheese breadsticks) and then headed to the park for a picnic. The kids made quick friends and were off running through the pirate ship having a great time. Meg has finally learned to enjoy the swing and doesn't panic anymore when we sit her in it. She let Chloe push her higher and higher and even cracked a few smiles. It was freezing and windy at the park so we didn't stay for too long.
We also were sure to stop in to visit our moms... we are so lucky to have my mother just down the road from us and Shaune's mother is just in Belleville - a short drive away. They are both wonderful Nana's to the kids and loved and appreciated so much.
When the day was all over and done and 3 kids were all tucked in to bed, all I kept thinking was
"Damn, it is awesome being their mom"!